why i don't miss school adulting

Why I don’t miss being a student

While I was still a student, I’ve always had teachers, family members, or colleagues telling me to cherish my time as a student, because I would come to really miss it when I enter the workforce. After being fed with these thoughts/advice over the many years, I inevitably found myself painting a dreary picture of my life after graduation.

Plot twist: I actually don’t miss student life at all.

I remember really struggling with school. In comparison to those days, I enjoy what I have now wayyyyyy more.

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school wasn’t a breeze.

I could never understand why memorising was the easy way out. If I didn’t understand it, and I just memorised it, what’s the point? I think my body physically and mentally rejected the idea of memorisation LOL. My bedroom walls were filled with post-its during A Levels period so that I could memorise all my concepts with sheer exposure. I REALLY TRIED OKAY.

why i don't miss school adulting

I remember those nights I cried in my bedroom because I had a test the next day that I knew I was going to fail. All that anxiety from struggling to pass my subjects. I also remember those times I had to do my homework standing because I was too exhausted after training. There was once I fell asleep on the floor for an hour because I was lying on the floor feeling hopeless about my exam.

Being a student definitely had its carefree and happy moments, but it sure as hell wasn’t easy. And I would not want to go back studying and taking exams omg that is like plain torture.

Now that I’m working…

I feel more stress-free in a sense that the idea of exams, homework, or other responsibilities aren’t looming over my head 24/7 throughout the year. Of course, that’s not the only benefit.

1. Stress-free weekends

It’s a pity that no one cares if children have a school-life balance, but once you reach adulthood, society becomes so concerned about work-life balance. Honestly, I’m pretty sure some people put themselves through as much trouble by studying, just like how some people work to their death.

Right now, I have official working hours, so technically I’m not obligated to worry about my work or assignments during my off hours. (Unless of course I have to work weekends, which happens more frequently than not hahahaha) I get to do whatever I want with my time. I can spend time with the family, head out to hang with my friends, or just spend the day lazing.

When you’re a student, rather than having the weekends to relax, or using the school holidays to take a breather, it’s usually filled up with homework and assignments, and allllllllll the studying you should start doing ahead of your exams. If I were to take a break, I would feel bad, because there will be others who’ve spent their whole holidays studying really hard. Yet if you’re a working adult, people look at you with sad eyes if you said you spent the whole weekend slogging off at the office.

Strange isn’t it? 

2. No more exams

I cannot stress enough how happy I am to be over and done with school exams. I cannot imagine sitting through another 2-3 hour paper in a cold and stale examination hall. Just thinking back, I have no idea how I even did it all those years. Especially A Levels. WHAT. A. MIRACLE.

If A Levels was hard, university felt like the cycle repeating every single semester, just sped up and much more stressful. It also doesn’t help that I’m not good with exams – memorisation, cramming information, etc. I usually come out with less than ideal results anyway. Nothing to make people feel better about themselves right?

I do know that exams aren’t only for students in school. I won’t eliminate the possibility that I might have to take an exam for professional or enrichment purposes in the future. But for now, I’m really not interested to have to think of an exam ever again.

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3. Financial independence

This has got to be the biggest highlight of having your own job and earning your own salary. I also know this is a tad dramatic because I’m not exactly financially independent at this point. Since I still live with my parents and I don’t have to pay for a house, or utility bills etc. But still, instead of getting a regular allowance from the parents, I’m now earning my own spending money.

I have way more freedom in how I wish to spend money – things I buy, do, or plan for. This is no indication that I’m a spendthrift or whatever okay – because I’m not. I quote my little sister now: “You are your own person!” I AM.

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How about you? Do you prefer studying or working?

With love,
jtwong


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